The Phaneroo Devotion: Marriage Series: Wisdom in Communication
Apostle Grace Lubega
James 4:17 (NKJV): “Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin.”
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In my years of pastoring and counseling couples, I have learned that many breakdowns in marital communication happen not because spouses are silent, but because they are communicating in falsehood.
What is “communication in falsehood”?
It occurs when a spouse complains about everything except the real issue troubling their heart. They may raise endless minor grievances while leaving the deeper matter unspoken, often sharing those true burdens with outsiders rather than their partner.
This is contrary to the will of God. True communication in marriage requires honesty, humility, and the courage to address real issues directly with your spouse. Before you vent to other people, whether they are relatives or even your pastor, ask yourself: Have I spoken to my spouse first?
When you withhold what needs to be shared, even if your partner is the one in the wrong, you create a barrier. The Word instructs us to examine our own hearts and repent before God. As our theme scripture reminds us, “Remember, it is sin to know what you ought to do and then not do it.”
When you choose to communicate in truth, you build an atmosphere of trust, healing, and grace in your home.
FURTHER STUDY: Ephesians 4:25; Colossians 3:9-10
GOLDEN NUGGET: True communication in marriage requires honesty, humility, and the courage to address real issues directly with your spouse. Before you vent to other people, whether they are relatives or even your pastor, ask yourself: Have I spoken to my spouse first?
PRAYER: Heavenly Father, I thank You for the gift of marriage and the wisdom of Your Word. You teach me to communicate with truth, humility, and love. I am free from any falsehood and fear that hinders openness with my spouse. My words bring healing, unity, and peace in my home. I choose honesty, guided by Your Spirit, that my marriage may reflect Christ and His Church. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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